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1 Peter 3

1Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, 2when they see your respectful and pure conduct. 3Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear—4but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious. 5For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands, 6as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord. And you are her children, if you do good and do not fear anything that is frightening. 7Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered. 8Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind. 9Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, bless, for to this you were called, that you may obtain a blessing. 10For “Whoever desires to love life and see good days, let him keep his tongue from evil and his lips from speaking deceit; 11let him turn away from evil and do good; let him seek peace and pursue it. 12For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and his ears are open to their prayer. But the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.” 13Now who is there to harm you if you are zealous for what is good? 14But even if you should suffer for righteousness’ sake, you will be blessed. Have no fear of them, nor be troubled, 15but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect, 16having a good conscience, so that, when you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ may be put to shame. 17For it is better to suffer for doing good, if that should be God’s will, than for doing evil. 18For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, that he might bring us to God, being put to death in the flesh but made alive in the spirit, 19in which he went and proclaimed to the spirits in prison, 20because they formerly did not obey, when God’s patience waited in the days of Noah, while the ark was being prepared, in which a few, that is, eight persons, were brought safely through water. 21Baptism, which corresponds to this, now saves you, not as a removal of dirt from the body but as an appeal to God for a good conscience, through the resurrection of Jesus Christ, 22who has gone into heaven and is at the right hand of God, with angels, authorities, and powers having been subjected to him.

Adoration

Father, we praise You for Your attentive care for the righteous, whose prayers You hear even when they suffer for doing good.

God attends to His people: “the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous,” and “his ears are open to their prayer.” His care does not mean that believers never suffer, since Peter says they may “suffer for righteousness’ sake”. Together, these words show that God hears and cares for His people even amid unjust suffering.

Confession

Lord, we confess that we repay hurtful words with hurtful words instead of blessing the people who speak against us.

The central sin pattern is retaliation, particularly answering an insult with another insult. Peter directly commands, “Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling,” and gives the alternative: “on the contrary, bless”. This command addresses “all of you,” so believers must confess their own retaliatory speech rather than treating it only as someone else’s problem.

Thanksgiving

Jesus, thank You for perfectly blessing those who reviled You instead of reviling them, and for dying to bear the penalty for our retaliatory words and bring us to God.

Peter grounds suffering for doing good in Christ’s saving work: “Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous”. Jesus perfectly embodied the righteous response Peter commands, blessing rather than returning reviling. His death bore the penalty for our retaliatory speech, with the purpose “that he might bring us to God”. The passage also locates our salvation “through the resurrection of Jesus Christ,” so our hope rests in the living Savior.

Supplication

Holy Spirit, change our hearts so that we seek the good of those who insult us, answering their words with blessing rather than retaliation.

The godly life actively seeks another person’s good rather than answering hostility in kind. Peter commands believers to “seek peace and pursue it”, and to explain their hope “with gentleness and respect”. This conduct grows from the inward allegiance expressed in “in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy”. We need the Spirit to shape our hearts so that our responses to insults become blessings rather than retaliation.

Prayer prompt

Pray these four lines slowly, adding specific names, situations, or sins from your own life as you bring each prayer to God.

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Reflect on 1 Peter 3

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